New beginnings.

To Everything (Turn, Turn, Turn) There is a season (Turn, Turn, Turn)And a time to every purpose, under Heaven..  ahh the Byrds said it best. 



Divorce is never easy but it doesn't have to be miserable either. Sometimes people just drift apart as in my case. Starting over is scary, exciting, and nerve wracking but I am so looking forward to that fresh start.  People make divorce hard, it doesn't have to be if people can remember that they did, at one time, care for that person and continue to treat them with that same care and respect.  My parents divorce was the stuff of legends. I swear the movie War of the Roses was based on their story that movie hit that close to home for me. I made a vow to never let that be me. People get caught up in stuff, and lashing out to hurt and doing things for spite. I have never understood that because A. it's just stuff, it can all be replaced and B. all it does is hurt everyone, yourself, the spouse, the kids, the only one that really wins is the lawyers collecting their fees.  My soon to be ex and I are handling this like adults and hopefully it will be a calm parting and a happy new beginning for the both of us.  I know I am looking forward to my new beginning.